Yolanda and Rich were married in Liberty State Park (The Liberty House), on a beautiful summer day. Their ceremony was sweet and fun. To honor Yolanda’s heritage, they had a traditional arras ceremony – a coin exchange. We used the same coins that were presented to Yolanda’s parents at their marriage, forty three years before! The arras has its roots in the idea of a dowry, but this is the wording that I like to use, that feels a little more modern and egalitarian, while still honoring the heritage of this beautiful ritual.
The coins, along with the bride’s engagement ring
These coins symbolize the wealth our couple will receive in their life – not just money, but the wealth of love, support, and protection they will provide for each other in their marriage.
Each coin symbolizes a trait that we hope Yoly and Rich’s marriage will be filled with: love, trust, commitment, respect, joy, happiness, harmony, wisdom, wholeness, nurturing, caring, cooperation, and peace.
May these coins remind you that it is more blessed to give than to receive – when you share your love and your lives with others, your love will only multiple and expand, richening and deepening your lives, your experiences, and your relationship.
They had a friend read Robert Fulgum’s “Union” – one of my favorites.
These beautiful photos are courtesy of Vanessa Joy Photography.
